Loyalty: I will remain faithful to my spouse at all times in all circumstances. Patience: I`m not going to try to change things about my spouse that I don`t like, but I`m going to change every one of my behaviors that annoy my partner. Forgiveness: If I have insulted my spouse, I will quickly ask for forgiveness and I will forgive my spouse`s misdeeds in my heart before I am even asked. Support/Service: I anticipate my spouse`s spiritual, emotional, physical and material needs and will do everything in my power to meet them. Respect: I will not act or speak in a way that ridicules or embarrasses my spouse. Kindness: I will be friendly with my spouse to eliminate any trace of wickedness from my behavior and my speech. Appreciation/Celebration: I will appreciate my spouse`s gifts and qualities and celebrate them personally and publicly. If you fully understand these seven love agreements, you can guide or correct the course of your marriage. If you understand love agreements, you realize that you can make sincere decisions that guide your willingness to act more Christianly according to your spouse.
It`s hard to come to an agreement. Paul exhorts the Ephesians before explaining the purpose of preserving the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace – by going with dignity to our vocation. How do we do that? What about? Lowness and sweetness, with. Nostalgic, we support each other in love. Effective agreements are an elegant way to achieve a common vision, either as a final step towards conflict resolution, or at the beginning of a new project, transaction or relationship. If you think of “agreements,” you are probably thinking about difficult negotiations and lengthy legal documents. You focus on how you can protect yourself from the “and if” of a situation. A more useful way to see chords is like: infidels? 16 What is the agreement between the temple of God and the idols? Because we are agreements that lead to friendship, because two or more people must be involved with common opinions or backgrounds. The first condition of the unification process is that, in other words, we have at least one friend; You must have at least one privileged companion to begin the process of the agreement. That`s why Amos 3:3 asked the question: “Do two go together, unless they agree to do so? Commitments/action commitments.
The agreement contains clear promises so that everyone knows who will do what. If the commitments to take action are specific, you can determine if the actions are sufficient. All commitments must have certain deadlines for the completion of tasks and the period during which the agreement will be in force. When are you going to do it and how long will you do it? The value of the exchange. Who`s got what for what? Are the exchanges satisfactory? This must be clearly understood and everyone must be satisfied, or it will sabotage the transaction. A measure of satisfaction. Evidence that advises everyone to achieve their goals must be clearly, directly and measurable, on which there can be no disagreement. This is crucial because it eliminates conflicts on the ultimate question: Did you get what you planned? Envy, quarrels and divisions had reduced the faithful to the natural or carnal state in which they found themselves before being reborn. He had so atrophied their spiritual growth that they could not understand things or appreciate the benefits of unity/agreement that Satan today sent the same spirit of division between us. He knows that a house divided against itself will fall. Matthew 12:25, KJV: 25 Jesus knew their thoughts, and said to him: Every kingdom divided against himself is brought to desolation; and any city or house divided against itself will not exist.
He also knows that if we all come together in the unity of our faith, we will come to the full face of Christ Jesus (Ephesians 4:13).